What The MarInfamous Teen Party Bus Says About Us

This is an opinion piece I wrote for the local newspaper where I live in Marin County, California. Unfortunately it did not get printed. Instead they ran another article commenting on how we need laws that come down harder on parents who host parties for teens. The week before they ran an opinion piece written…

Rational Parenting – Introducing a Radicle New Concept

In the past decade many of the most popular Best Selling books about parenting and raising healthy children, have proffered profoundly important and deep messages. Using a mix of research and empirical observation, illustrated with countless anecdotal case studies, they have taught us repeatedly these breakthrough revelations: • Spoiling kids is bad for them. • Too…

A Different Kind Of Christmas Story

A Different Kind Of Christmas Story As a Chanukah-Man, my memories of Christmas growing up in the Midwest in the 70s and 80s are few and far between. It was always somebody else’s Holiday. But there was one distinct memory that stands out and has stayed with me for 30 years now and comes back…

The 20/80 Rule: A College Freshman Finding His People

Jerrod struggled to find good friends in high school, and had high hopes that college would be different.  He’d attended a small private high school where he often felt like the only kid who wasn’t uber-smart, socially savvy and into drinking, smoking and hooking-up. He was not only a “late bloomer” socially, he was also quite conservative…