Fundamentals Videos

Fundamentals #1: The Excitatory Bias vs What Everyone Else Does    Fundamentals #2: What’s About You vs What’s About Others   Fundamentals #3: Determining Your Criteria   Fundamental #4: Why Motivation Shouldn’t Be The Aim

Another Category: Two Types Of Parents

In my practice, I receive inquiries from two types of parents: Those who it pains and saddens to watch their kids struggling vs Those who are just frustrated and annoyed with them for not just making better decisions. The First Type: Don’t get me wrong, those in the first group certainly have their share of frustrations with their…

Own Your Cool ™

Own Your Cool  ™ Dedicated to all those people who have dumbed themselves down, sold themselves short, gotten discouraged and/or given up on dreams because of shitty things that happened to them when they were younger or because of some belief that is only a certain type of person who succeeds in life or some other…

KGO Radio Interview Adolescence Not A Disease

Many people seeking advice on their future career or college admissions seek a career counselor or life coach to help them to make a sound decision. In my practice in Mill Valley I am not a psychotherapist, but I see many teens and young adults having issues with promiscuity, alcohol or drugs. But these behaviors…

Growing Up Doesn’t Just Happen Between 9 & 5

This blog posting shows real “screen shots” of text messages that were sent to me just in the last few days.  I think this gives a real glimpse into the world of today’s adolescents. This is especially for those who are seeking to better understand the model and methodology of work I do with Evolution Mentoring.  Growing Up…

Looking To Play Chess In A Candyland Culture

I received a call  today from a college student client who was concerned about something going on in his relationship with his girlfriend. In short, she came to him last week wanting to have an “open relationship” – meaning one where they can be free to have sex with others, while still being boyfriend girlfriend. Only the…